That's one of the few nice things about lupus: it teaches you priorities. :) I gave myself permission long ago to "fall down on the job" in certain areas of life. Or as I like to say sometimes, "It's not fatal, love, so don't sweat it."
I always try to wish people happy birthday or anniversary or what have you, in their journals or via email. If circumstances call for me to be bedbound that day, barely able to lift my head, oh, well. I try to do it later, if it's within a day or two of the event. If not, oh, well *period*. It's not that I can't be bothered, it's just that I don't always have the leisure of a cooperating body. If people don't wish me anything, that's fine, too. I figure they have just as much right to a bad or busy day as I do.
Re: writing, I couldn't agree with you more. I write to appease the Muse and get the bunnies out of my hutch. If others like what I write, great. If they don't, I have peace of mind and a happy Muse. It's win-win... with porn and plot.
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That's one of the few nice things about lupus: it teaches you priorities. :) I gave myself permission long ago to "fall down on the job" in certain areas of life. Or as I like to say sometimes, "It's not fatal, love, so don't sweat it."
I always try to wish people happy birthday or anniversary or what have you, in their journals or via email. If circumstances call for me to be bedbound that day, barely able to lift my head, oh, well. I try to do it later, if it's within a day or two of the event. If not, oh, well *period*. It's not that I can't be bothered, it's just that I don't always have the leisure of a cooperating body. If people don't wish me anything, that's fine, too. I figure they have just as much right to a bad or busy day as I do.
Re: writing, I couldn't agree with you more. I write to appease the Muse and get the bunnies out of my hutch. If others like what I write, great. If they don't, I have peace of mind and a happy Muse. It's win-win... with porn and plot.